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Tuesday, 26 May 2015

The Ganga Dussehra Festival


“My bones are destined to make corals in the Ganga” – Swami Vivekananda
  
The river Ganga isn’t something that needs introduction, being the most sacred river to Hindus across the world. People from far and wide come here to expiate their sins in the holy water. The Ganga Aarti on the banks of the river is truly a sight to behold! The Ganga originates in the Himalayas in Uttarakhand, and flows down across North India and Bangladesh, finally ending its journey in the Bay of Bengal.

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Ganga Dussehra is a festival that celebrates the descent of the Ganga onto earth, and is celebrated along the major cities on the banks of the river like Allahabad, Haridwar and Rishikesh, although the epicenter of the festival is at Varanasi, also called Benares. It is celebrated on the tenth day of Jyeshtha, a month on the Hindu calendar. According to the Gregorian calendar, it falls somewhere in May-June. This festival is not to be confused with Ganga Jayanti, which celebrates the birth of the Goddess Ganga. Read on to know more about how this festival came to be.



The Story

The story of the Ganga river begins with the king Kapila whose meditation was disturbed by the king Sagara’s sixty thousand sons. Irritated beyond words, Kapila focused his burning stare on Sagara’s sons, reducing them to ashes and banishing them to the netherworld. Their only chance of escape was water from the Holy Ganga, who then resided in Heaven.

The task of freeing Sagara’s trapped sons was undertaken by one of his descendants, the king Bhagiratha. He meditates for years and is finally granted his wish. The Goddess Ganga agrees to descend to earth, but she warns him that her immense strength might destroy everything on earth. Bhagiratha pleads with Lord Shiva to help, and he finally agrees to let Ganga flow down to earth through the coils of his hair. It is this descent of the Ganga or ‘Ganga Avataran’ that is celebrated as the Ganga Dussehra festival.

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The Religious Significance

Due to the main characters in the story of Ganga’s descent, they are also the most worshipped during this festival – King Bhagiratha, Lord Shiva and Goddess Ganga. Ganga Dussehra is also called Ganga Dashami, and several rituals are held across the river banks, dedicated to these three main deities.
 
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The descent of Ganga is said to coincide with ten Vedic astrologic landmarks or Yogas. The combination of these yogas is said to absorb man’s sins when he takes a dip in the holy water. Dussehra is a mix of ‘Dus’ meaning ten and ‘hara’ meaning defeat. Thus this festival is also an occasion for destroying one’s sins, the belief being that you can attain salvation from ten of your sins – 3 physical, 4 verbal and 5 mental.

The Celebration

On Ganga Dussehra, idols of the Goddess Ganga is dressed in white clothes and decorated with white flowers and a pooja is conducted to worship her. Ideally, one should bathe in the river itself for salvation, but if it isn’t possible, it is recommended to bathe in regular water to which a little Ganga jal or holy water has been added. Many devotees fast for the whole day, abstaining from food and water and breaking their fast only after the moon rises. A bath in the Ganges is followed by eating fruit to break the day-long fast.

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The Ganga is a beautiful sight during this festival. Women float flowers, leaf boats and oil lamps in the river, filling the air with a lovely fragrance and the soothing sounds of temple chants and hymns. There are also large fairs to be seen, as well as donation centres, since it is considered auspicious to donate anything in numbers of ten, especially edibles and things that offer protection in summer, like shoes, clothes and umbrellas.

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Today, the festival of Ganga Dussehra is also an occasion to think about preserving the river and fighting pollution. The religious nature of the Ganga river attracts devotees from across the world, and several awareness campaign have begun to ensure that devotees keep the river clean and safe for other people as well as for the rich flora and fauna for whom the river Ganga is home as well. To quote Swami Vivekananda again, “See what an atmosphere of holiness is here -- the pure air of the Ganga -- what an assemblage of Sadhus -- will you find anywhere a place like this!

Friday, 8 May 2015

6 Ways to Make Mother’s Day special for your Mom


All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.” - Abraham Lincoln
  
The world has always sung praises of a mother’s love and it’s also obvious in the fact that the celebration of Mother’s Day is a much bigger event than say Father’s Day or Brother’s Day. But in a world where everyone is busy with their smart phones and such, one wonders if this day is turning out to be a clichéd commercial event, devoid of real feeling.

When we grow up and start our own lives and careers, we think of ourselves as grownups, but the fact is that for our Moms, we’ll always be their little babies!! If you’ve been feeling guilty about not appreciating your Mom or spending enough time with her, then this Mother’s Day is the perfect opportunity to remedy that! Here are 10 ways to make Mother’s Day truly special for your Mom. After all, that smile on her face is what you want to see!

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1. No-chores Day

There are few things mothers appreciate more than a day to just relax and not have to cook or clean! Ensure a day where she doesn’t have to do anything, not even make a cup of tea! Enlist the help of your Dad and siblings along with your maid and make sure the house is spick and span and all the chores are taken care of. Let her put her feet up and relax thoroughly!

2. Shopping Trip

Who doesn’t love shopping!! Take your Mom and sisters or sisters-in-law for a fun day at the mall or exclusive boutiques, if that’s your Mom’s style. Get her a new wardrobe complete with accessories and shoes. Don’t make it too tiring though, and include plenty of time for rest and refreshment.

3. Sightseeing Tour

Take your Mom along for a day trip near your city, or to a place you lived in as a child. Walk through town and look at how the buildings have changed. Depending upon your Mom’s interests, you can also visit a beach, museum or even a fair. Be sure to take along water, snacks and schedule frequent rest stops.

4. Favorite TV Show Reruns

This is perfect if your Mom is more of a homebody. Get DVDs of her favorite TV show and spend the day binge watching them. Get her favorite snacks and beverages ready in advance, and hire the maid to do all the housework, so she can focus on enjoying. To make it nostalgic, get your siblings and watch a show your family enjoyed when you were kids.

5. Spa Day

There is not going to be any Mom who’ll say no to day of pampering! Book a spa day for the two of you, and get the whole package – facial, manicure, pedicure, massage – the works. You’ll both emerge feeling fresh and happy – a great way to get rid of accumulated daily stress! You might have to book in advance, so call and find out.

6. Family Party

If your siblings are scattered around and don’t meet up often, why not do it now! Arrange for a surprise party at your Mom’s place and turn up with all her kids and grandkids. She’ll be sure to have a blast!! Alternately, one of you take her out for some time, while the others can quickly decorate the place and get it ready by the time you’re back. Be sure to take lots and lots of pictures!!

As you see, you don’t need to be a millionaire to make your Mom happy! Just a few well thought out gestures and some advance planning can go a long way in delighting her and creating beautiful new memories for the whole family. You know that she’s worth all it and more and her happiness means the world to you! As Honore de Balzac says,

A mother's happiness is like a beacon, lighting up the future but reflected also on the past in the guise of fond memories